When you're around someone who has a disability, be relaxed and talk about mutual interests. It's okay to talk about the disability if it comes up, but don't pry. Some other helpful hints include:
If you are part of the day-to-day life of a person who has a disability, your emotional as well as physical support can be an invaluable source of strength. Here are some ways to help:
- Always address the person first, not the disability. For example, say "a person with a disability" instead of "a disabled person." Likewise, say "people who are blind" rather than "the blind," and avoid old-fashioned terms such as afflicted, crippled or lame.
- Speak directly to someone who is hearing impaired, rather than to an assistant. Don't shout, but speak clearly and slowly and remember that facial expressions and gestures are important.
- Be patient if the person needs extra time to do or say something.
- If the person uses a wheelchair, sit down to talk so you're at the same level.
- Listen carefully and patiently to a person with a speech impairment. Avoid speaking for the person, and try to ask questions that require short answers.
- Don't touch a guide dog or a wheelchair or crutches used by the person unless you're asked to do so.
- Offer help if asked or if the need seems obvious, but don't insist.
Some Advice for Family and Friends
Those who are close to someone with a disability may experience many of the same feelings their loved ones have: anger, frustration, fear, sorrow and even guilt.If you are part of the day-to-day life of a person who has a disability, your emotional as well as physical support can be an invaluable source of strength. Here are some ways to help:
- Come together with other family members; don't let the situation divide you. While you may all react differently to a disability, the cooperation of everyone will make for a smoother transition.
- Learn the facts about the person's disability. Knowing what to expect can help prepare you for future challenges.
- Know how and when to help. Respect the person's feelings. Ask a person who uses a wheelchair if he or she would like assistance before you start pushing.
- Foster self-esteem. Be positive and encourage independence, to the extent possible. Help your loved one look for new ways to achieve his or her goals.
- Look for help. Find out about local support groups and community services that can help both the person with the disability and the caregiver.
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